Hola!
Goks gak judulnya? hahaha
Gile niki pakar move on sekarang? Y gaklah, sejaak kapan wkwkwk. As you guys already knew or some of you had experienced it, move on itu susah, susah banget sampe ada yang bilang move on itu mitos. Bener gak? Setuju gak sama gua? ya kan ya kaaaaan *cari dukungan*
Post ini isinya bukan cara untuk move on, karena gw juga gatau tuh caranya gimana, kan gw juga nanya haahahaha *baca postingan sebelum2 ini*
Yang jelas waktu move on seseorang itu beda-beda. Days, weeks, years it depends of how you loved someone, how deep your love to that someone, am i right? Tergantung juga cara pisahnya gimana, dan tergantung juga berapa lama masing-masing dari kalian ketemu seseorang yang baru. Kalo baru putus seminggu udah move on sama udah nembak orang lagi sih ya jelas yaaaaaaa *curcol alert*
But you know as the time goes by this move on thing will happen eventually, even you wont realized it.Time will tell they said. Time will heal, they said. I personally don't agree. Time will tell, yes, but time doesn't heal, God does. Jadi tanpa lo sadarin lo move on dengan sendirinya seiring waktu berjalan.
Tulisan ini gak bakal kasi tau lo gimana caranya move on. Tapi tanda-tandanya aja kalo lo udah move on, based on my experience *ciaelah*
So, shall we begin? *Ala Khaleesi*
You're no longer waiting them to contact you.
Pas baru putus, bakal ada kejadian yang gw sebut rebound phenomenon, kayak sakau gitu. Biasanya kalian saling chat, telpon, video call, gitulah, tapi setelah putus hal itu gak sama lagi. Akan ada suatu keadaan dimana lo gelisah liatin hp terus nunggu dia chat lo duluan, atau nunggu dia telpon duluan. You'll be there staring at your phone, waiting. Liatin whatsappnya online doang tapi gak ada chat. Makes you wonder dia lagi apa, lagi dimana, sama siapa, tapi karena kalian uda putus gapunya hak lagi buiat nanya2 kek gitu. So you just sitting there, staring at their online status, misserably missing them but cannot contect them. When you started to move on, you're no longer waiting them to contact you. You can calmly leave you phone, not starring at it again. If you're at this phase, yeay! keep going :)
When they finally contact you.
At first, you'll be very happy, extremely happy. Finally they contact you! Is there any hope?Ya bisa aja ada harapan, bisa aja dia mau minta balikan, bisa aja dia kangen, bisa aja. Tapi bisa juga dia cuma bosen, dia belom dapet gebetan baru, bisa jadi baru ditolak sama gebetannya, bisa aja.
Bisa aja they just want your attention, they don't want your heart *nyanyi*
When you started to move on, their call is nothing for you anymore. Waktu lo udah move on, chat mereka gak penting lagi, you'll leave it there, sometimes you forgot to reply it, because it doesn't matter anymore, not something important. Phase 2, passed! wohoo.
You Don't Stalk Anymore
Girls love to stalk aren't they? They tend to search whatever, any information although it may hurt them. Stalk sana stalk sini, mantan udah punya pacar belum yaaaa...trus liat postingan mantan sama pacar barunya, liat foto gandeng2an padahal waktu sama kamu katanya gasuka PDA, trus kelarrr semua baper berhari-hari hahahhaha sokoooorrr :'D
Believe it girls, i knew how it feels #yak #curcol. But it doesn't matter anymore. There, that's how will you feel when you moved on. It doesn't matter anymore, it doesn't bother you anymore. Dan udah gak ada keinginan lagi buat stalk, because, you get over it. Yo-ho!
When friends mention their name.
When you hang out with you friends then suddenly they mention your ex you'll be teary up, baper, lalu pandicur selama 3 jam sampe temen-temen lo bosen (but good friends aren't). Tapi tenang aja, dengan berjalannya waktu, it will get better. When you started to move on, mau disebut berkali-kali juga lo udah gabakal baper lagi, bahkan sedikitpun rasa nyelekit inget kelakuannya gak ada. Just like mentioning the stranger's name, meaningless to you. Ooow yaaas!
You're no longer talk about them.
Pandicur, pandicur everywhere, anytime. Lagi ngomongin apa tetiba you're going like..."Dulu gw sama dia gini nih..bla bla bla" trus ujung-ujungnya baper. When you started to move on, meskipun dipancing juga lo gak nyebut-nyebut dia lagi, bahkan cenderung males ngomongin mantan. Yoiii.
You dont give a d*mn anymore.
This is the ultimate sign that you have succesfully moved on. You don't give a f d*mn anymore. Do not care if your ex has a new girlfriend, boyfriend, or married. There's no feeling left, even you're not angry anymore. There's nothing. And congratulation, you have move on :D
Okay there you go. I probably don't know step by step how to move on, but definitely i know how it feels like, when you had. Move on itu proses kok, i believe it #halah. Kalo lo orang yang move on nya lama, bukan berarti lo cemen kok, mungkin lo terlalu sayang sama dia tadinya. Diselingkuhin sekali mungkin lo bakal galau bertanya-tanya salah lo dimana, tapi kalo lo tau dia nyelingkuhin selingkuhan pertama, dan belom move on juga nah berarti salah lo, uda tau gak bener ngapa masih digalauin? *ah, you know what i mean kan :)* Kalo ada yang gak galau sama sekali setelah putus, berarti dia gak pernah sayang sama lo, udah, dan lo gak rugi, itu aja #conclusion.
Buat yang lagi usaha move on, semangat yaaaa, walau keliatannya mustahil tapi kalian pasti bisak! (`__`)9. Buat yang udah move on, selamat!
Udah gitu aja, my post couldnt be weirder than this. Of course, those are just a few signs you know you had moved on. You'll realized it when you had it ;). Thanks for reading post penuh curcolan ini hehhe. Byee!
